Let me first say I love my mom very much

but she does not get it. After a heated conversation last night, she had the gull to say "you had a baby like a million other people have get over it". Really??? Are you serious? I am shocked as she sat there many times when I woke up from surgery, when she saw first hand the first failure of a canceled IVF cycle, she knows that I lost an ovary, a fallopian tube due to a tumor, she knows all this. How many IUI's did I do, six to be exact, how many IVF's did I do? Four to exact, three canceled due to poor ovarian response. Is my baby a miracle? Why yes he is! I had a baby by having sex, shit, does that even happen these days??? Instead of thinking I might be pregnant I thought I was in menopause. Took the test when I was close to seven weeks pregnant, I have an endoscopy the week prior. So yeah, he is a fucking miracle. My miracle and yes I want to take endless pictures of him, I love him, I adore him, I basically worship the ground he walks on.

Again, I love my mother but it's getting harder and harder to have a conversation with her.